I dreamt of us leaving last night. We were getting in the car as dawn broke. Mum was there crying alongside a few blurred faces. Dad and I got into the car and I looked over my shoulder and squinted at everyone waving as we started driving off . I remember looking across at Dad and I woke up as he turned to me with a huge grin and said “Here we go…!”.

This trip has been like a tumour in Dad’s head for years. Benign, but there. The last few years it has started growing and in the last six months it has been impossible to ignore. It has consumed him. His spare time has consisted of applying for visa after visa, combing through traveller information websites, waiting on hold to the Darwin shipping company and trawling eBay.com for useless gadgets that will never come in handy. At times Dad’s meticulous preparation has been painful. At times it has been exciting. He’s impressed me with his folder organisation and time management. He’s worn me out with the logistical complexity of it all. He’s itching to get on that road and go.

When next Sunday comes I know it will be exactly like the dream. The surreal feeling of the millions of moments spent day-dreaming finally becoming real. And when we do set off in the car I know, just like in the dream, that Dad’s face will be lit up with excitement, and so will mine.

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31 comments to “Dad’s Tumour”

  1. By Vicki June 18th, 2008 at 8:09 am

    Hi Jack X:-) Vicki here… I just know that this is going to be an experience with your dad that you will treasure and keep in your heart forever… Have heaps of FUN! and Thankyou for sharing it with us X:-) (Vicki)

  2. By Victoria Rosenberg June 18th, 2008 at 9:32 am

    Jon and Jack,
    I am so excited for you both about your trip. I can’t wait to follow you via your blog.(I would love to be a fly on the wall when you are searching for that cable you know you put in that box!)
    Travel safely and carefully and finally, cherish the time spent together, that will be “gold”
    I can’t begin to imagine what Jan will be going through as you pull away from the curb,waiving to her through the rear view mirror.I’ve already got a tear in my eye!

    Cheers Victoria

  3. By Tony June 18th, 2008 at 9:51 am

    Good luck to you both and I hope you use this time to REALLY get to know one another.

  4. By Afton June 18th, 2008 at 10:29 am

    Good luck Jon and Jack. Being a traveller I would love to be in the back seat with you. I’ll enjoy reading your blogs about the amazing adventures you have.

  5. By Marcus June 18th, 2008 at 11:06 am

    What a great adventure! As good a way as exists to put politics and ‘issues of the day’ into their true perspective.
    Enjoy yourselves.

    Marcus

  6. By Julian June 18th, 2008 at 11:14 am

    I will follow your trip with much interest - and some envy. The most useful item on such a trip? the MP3 player, the most frustrating? the satellite phone. I’m sure at some point you will be standing on the roof of the vehicle to try to find reception.

  7. By Patrick June 18th, 2008 at 4:06 pm

    Have a great trip you two it will be a fantastic life experience. What happens to the car when you get to England? Sell it ship it back or do a U turn and drive home?
    You have now inspired me to go and do that Motorcycle trip around Australia.
    Good luck keep safe.
    Patrick

  8. By Joan June 18th, 2008 at 6:31 pm

    Jon you will be greatly missed but I wish you and Jack a journey to match all your dreams without any of the nightmares. Have an eventful but safe trip and thank you for allowing us to share in your exploits.

  9. By Delysia Westwood June 18th, 2008 at 6:33 pm

    Gidday and all the very best to you both and Jan too - obviously behind every well plan trip is a great woman!!. Jokes aside, your trip brings back great memories of 20 yrs ago, travelling 25 + countries, meeting fantastic people, seeing amazing places & having the best time ever. Jon & Jack make the most of every moment, take only those 21st century gadgets you really need (chuck out the rest), remain flexible as you can’t plan for all those “out of the blue” events, but most of all, enjoy “your” adventure of a lifetime – Cheers for now Delysia

  10. By Bill June 18th, 2008 at 9:13 pm

    Jack and Jon, I am very envious. Ever since living in London for 3 years as a teenager (now 20 odd years ago) I have nursed a dream to drive a London taxi back to Australia. I hope that perhaps when my kids are old enough I will be able to make that dream happen as you have done.
    Good Luck.

  11. By Robin June 19th, 2008 at 12:04 am

    Best of luck in living your dream - I’ll be looking forward to reading of your escapades. Have you thought of ear plugs Jon? just in case Jack’s music becomes too much for you…
    Happy travelling
    Robin, Bendigo.

  12. By carole jaacks June 19th, 2008 at 12:31 pm

    Jon, Jack and family

    Travel is about intensefying the experience of being alive. Safe jounrey and have a wonderful time.

    CJ

  13. By Ken June 19th, 2008 at 3:38 pm

    Jon and Jack, I had a trip to Asia with my son 18 years ago and it was very precious to me. I have fortunately just had a second trip overseas with my son, two weeks in Portugal and Spain and I am disappointed that it took so long to happen again. I really value these two special times in our lives together so I do wish you all the best as I know this will be the “voyage of a lifetime” for you both. Good luck.

  14. By Sue June 20th, 2008 at 11:39 am

    Will look forward to reading Jack’s entries. Jon, you write the same way you talk. Too much useless information. But, have the most wonderful time. It reminds me to keep planning for that big trip with my kids. It will happen.
    Good Luck.

  15. By Adrian Barker June 20th, 2008 at 2:42 pm

    Envy, envy, and you can do it! We did it thirty years ago - London to Melbourne - but you are going where we never dreamed we could go. All the best - safe trip. Cheers AB.

  16. By Marj June 23rd, 2008 at 10:53 am

    Have a safe and wonderful trip. I will be following your adventure of a lifetime and I am very happy to be able to share the experience. Good luck and take care

  17. By Jane from Lang Lang June 23rd, 2008 at 11:31 am

    What a wonderful adventure for you both and those who will be watching your progress. As a 774 listener I can’t believe that your time has come! Well written Jack, let your dad do the talking … you keep up the very vivid written images.

    Warm wishes to you both for a wonderful, wonderful time together.

    Jane …. from Lang Lang

  18. By Natalie June 23rd, 2008 at 3:34 pm

    Jon, I’ve been hearing bits and pieces about your upcoming trip. I miss you already. I will miss your daily programme. You are unique on the radio nowadays.

    Have a wonderful trip both of you. You will have a fabulous time.

    Safe journey and bon voyage.

    I hope you come back to us eventually.
    All the very best.

  19. By Vic Johanesen June 23rd, 2008 at 5:08 pm

    Hi Jon and Jack,

    Our very best wishes for an exciting and awe enspiring trip to London. Last year my wife and I travelled by train from Moscow to Beijing - a journey, on one of the Silk Routes, that skirted south and east through many of the former Russian States. We particularly liked Uzbekistan where places like Samarkand have a history dating back 2750 years. You must see Ulugh Beg’s Observatory and learn how he figured out latitude long before the west.
    We found the people in all of the countries visited were very interested in the West, particularly students of all ages. There is a thurst for knowledge - in Samarkand we were asked to write to Bill Gates to get him to send computers, so the young people can learn about the outside world. We think thats a job for someone like Rotary International or better still the UN.

    We will follow with interest your journey. Oh, one last thing - take a bag full pins (the ones with kangaroos or koalas) - they are cheap here and it helps to break the ice, with children particularly, in all those foreign lands.

    Regards and best wishes

    Vic Johanesen

  20. By Terry Kenwrick June 24th, 2008 at 12:22 pm

    Jon and Jack,I travelled across China on the back
    of a camping truck 12 years ago, Beijing to Lhasa.
    The best bits were extraordinary, landscapes and
    peoples I’ll never forget.The odd regional road gangs can be tedious. Patience will see the bribe/
    passage toll drop rapidly.Noodle stops were always
    colourful tho somewhat Dickensian. Get set for images of unbelievable poverty and wretchedness.
    Unless you wish to clear a sinus condition, avoid
    public toilets at all costs. Pack a small pointy
    spade, China is very diggable.
    Safe driving.
    Terry from Yarraville

  21. By Darryl from Mt Martha June 25th, 2008 at 10:28 am

    Hope that all goes well for you two. 38 years ago it was me who was setting out; an old Bedford truck and lots of adventure in the blood. I was able to go through Pakistan, Afganistan and Iran following the old silk road. A little different to you planned route but I am sure at some points you will travel in the same region as I did all those years ago.Have fun and enjoy as you will never forget the experience I am sure. Tip, do not use the paper serviettes if given them in cafes, take them but they may come in handy for another completely different use!

  22. By Marjorie & David June 25th, 2008 at 6:03 pm

    Bon Voyage Jon & Jack - A dream that is nurtured and brought to fruition is called hard work, and no one knows how hard it is until you get to work on that dream - have a wonderful experience, we will miss you in the mornings Jon but will keep up with you as you travel. Can’t wait to hear your stories,

  23. By Frank from Ivanhoe June 27th, 2008 at 1:58 pm

    Bon voyage Jon and Jack, we’re going to miss you on 774 but will stay in touch by following your travels and stories on this blog. Enjoy this time together, it’s a truly wonderful thing you’re sharing together and no matter the trials of frustration it will bring, they will be recalled as an integral part of this life experience. I’ve always dreamed of doing something similar with my adult kids (I live in hope one day they will want to reconnect with their dad again) and we ‘get to rediscover each other as adults’. So your trip has meaning to many of us onlookers and our prays go with you both and hopefully it comforts Jan to know that we’re company in your adventure. Have a great time, stay safe and see you back home in early 2009. Frank and Norma

  24. By Martin Peters June 27th, 2008 at 5:21 pm

    Hi Guys.

    I have just two words of advice for you:

    WINTER DIESEL

    We found ourselves in Turkey at -20 degrees C with what could best be described as a tank full of wax.

    Two hours with a camping stove under the fuel tank got us going again.

    Western countries stick a special additive in diesel to stop it ‘waxing’ in the cold. Less developed countries expect you to stick a bottle of said additive in as you see fit.

    Oh, and if you carry no other spares, make sure you have a spare diesel filter for the lumps you are likely to encounter!

    Have a GREAT trip. Brings back happy memories of our own similar exploits in 2000.

    Cheers,

    Martin.

  25. By Adrian from Warrnambool June 27th, 2008 at 5:21 pm

    Look forward to making the journey with you.

  26. By Martin Peters June 27th, 2008 at 5:25 pm

    Edit to my above post.

    Website for our trip is at

    http://expedition.farmworks.com.au

    link on the previous post didn’t work!

    Cheers,

    Martin.

  27. By George June 28th, 2008 at 11:28 am

    Jack & Jon, the very best of travel. What a time of bonding, awareness and achievement. I’m not envious. Much.

    Warm waves.

  28. By Jim Stirling June 28th, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    Received the RACV magazine this week and “Drool” was pouring out of my mouth.I have dreamt of this idea for years. Congratulations to you both to actually “DoIt”What an adventure lies ahead.I will follow your days with great interest.Last year without little publicity an aussie walked the entire lenghth of the great wall of China and I followed that with great interest.Now I will follow your trip you lucky things.
    We have driven in Asia and the only thing you need as I am sure you are aware is “Loot”for the “Boys in blue”.The word will be out already that you are coming.
    The test lies ahead for father and son,all the best for the roads ahead
    Jim

  29. By John Hogan July 23rd, 2008 at 12:38 pm

    (Cue Arnie voice) “It not a tooomah”

  30. By ROBYN October 29th, 2008 at 3:06 pm

    Jon, heard the last of your conversation with Ali on 774 this morning. Too late to call, but you simply MUST visit the Sunday animal market in Kashgar; it’s incredible! Turpan is a MUST too.
    Border crossing btn China & Kyrgyzstan & across the Tien Shan mountains is unbelievable! Good Luck! The warmth of the Islamic people throughout Western China to Istanbul is wonderful
    Have travelled extensively, & the Silk Rd is by far, the most memorable trip in the World.

  31. By ROBYN October 29th, 2008 at 3:16 pm

    Congratulations Jack!

    You have an amazing gift with your use of the English language.

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